I don’t want to write this post. My heart is broken over the loss of Shady Grove. She was my constant companion, muse, and best friend for over 16 years. She was brutally taken from us on Sunday morning.
The sweetest cat I’ve ever known, she was always gentle and so careful to never scratch me. She never did anything naughty like most cats, she just wanted love and scratches.
She loved to be outdoors, that was her thing. She loved licking water off the leaves, the puddles on the ground, or the bathtub faucet.
Shady was my constant companion, always by or on my side, literally. She would sit and look up at me, lightly tugging on my clothes when she wanted my attention. She didn’t like to be picked up but she loved sitting and sleeping on me.
Crushed. Devastated. I haven’t cried this much in 30 years. We will never be the same without her.
If you have fur babies, please give them some extra love today. ❤️🩹😢
Tiffany Arp-Daleo Artwork 
I am so sorry Tiffany! I know how much you loved your cat.
We had to put Bella down (I’m sure you remember her from the office) on Friday and I feel lost.
Please take good care of you while you grieve. Chris
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Hi Chris, I’m so sorry to hear about Bella, she was such a sweet dog. 😔 I guess we will both be okay eventually, it just hurts. Love and hugs to you guys!❤️🩹
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🥺💔🙏
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Thanks Matt 😔
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I know how powerful this grief can be. Sending condolences and comforting vibes.
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Thank you, Stan, I appreciate that.
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So sorry for your loss.
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Thank you Phil.
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😢🤗💛🙋♂️
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Thank you Graham
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Wishing Shady wasn’t taken in the way you described especially since she is the sweetest, considerate, loyal, and loving. Thinking of her, and feeling for you Tiffany and those who were also close to her.
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Thank you so much for your words of comfort.
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It’s so hard to endure these losses. Our companions, the sweet souls that have shared and brightened our days. I’m so very sorry 😔 🫂
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Thank you Aud, this one is going to take a long time to recover from.
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💙 💙 💙
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I’m so sorry for your loss, she sounds like a wonderful companion. 💔
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Thank you, she was the best.
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I’m so sorry Tiffany that someone took your beautiful cat!
Does she have a chip under her skin? She could be found if so.
Love and hugs friend, you are in my prayers!
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Thank you, she was chipped, and I hope the damn coyotes choked on it😭
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Since your cat was chipped you might want to check with your local animal shelters.She may be at one of them.
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Oh no, Tiffany! My heart is breaking for you. You loved your sweet little Shady and I know she loved you so much. Whenever we open our hearts and our homes to fur babies, we know we have to accept the sorrow along with the joy. We just take those thoughts and push them aside and when it happens, it’s devastating. That’s what having a huge heart means. I’ll be thinking of you, Tiffany. My heart is with you. Big hugs. 🫂 xoxo 🫶🏼
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Thank you Nancy, so true.
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You’re so welcome, Tiffany. It’s going to take time coming to terms with such a huge loss; I hope today you’re feeling a little bit better. ❤︎
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It’s not the way I want to celebrate my birthday, but all the kinds words and support do help, thanks again Nancy.
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Oh boy. What a bittersweet day for you, Tiffany. I hope you were able to enjoy your birthday. You could use some happiness right now. ❤︎
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Oh no, this is very sad news! I know from personal experience that losing a beloved pet is one of the most difficult and heartbreaking events in life. They’re truly members of our family, and losing them can be every bit as painful as losing a parent, sibling or close friend. My heart goes out to you Tiffany.
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Thank you Jeff.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, Tiffany. That’s heartbreaking to endure the loss of your kitty baby. I will pray for your healing.
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Thank you so much, this one is going to take a while.
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Tiffany, I am so very sorry. As a cat lover and having lost some extraordinary feline companions I understand your loss. She will always be with you…..XX
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Thank you Janet, yes, always in my heart.❤️🩹
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I’m sorry to hear this… xo
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Thank you Simon, I’m crushed.
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I know and it sucks…
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I am so sorry. So very, very, sorry. There are no words, nothing anyone can say to help you right now. Sending love.
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I know you know, thank you Gigi. 😔
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❤️
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I am very sorry for your loss. Pets become so integral to our lives – indeed, they become members of our families. The loss of a pet is so devastating. My heart goes out to you.
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Thank you K, I’m lost without her. 😔
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Oh no! That is terrible to lose Shady Grove. She was such a beautiful kitty. I’m so sorry.
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Thanks Tim, this is the worst. 😔
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I can imagine.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful mascot for your posts and a loving member of your family. Over time, I’m sure she will give you signs of her presence just to let you know she will always be at your side.
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Thank you, yes, I know she is always close in my heart, and I believe in those signs, I am looking. 😉
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Oh, I’m so sorry, Tiffany. I dread the day when we lose our cat, who looks a lot like Shady Grove.
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Thanks Chris, it’s the worst thing ever. Please give your kitty lots of extra love while you can. ❤
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Oh dear Tiffany, I am so sorry to learn of your heartbreaking loss. Words are not adequate, but I want to share support for you. What a sweetheart personality and beautiful companion.
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Thank you so much Michele, I appreciate your kind support, this sucks.
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Wish I could do more – it is a heartbreaking thing to go through. Your loss sounds traumatic. So sorry.
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Hate when this happens, my heart goes out to you!
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Thanks Craig. 😔
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I’m so very heart heavy to hear of your loss. This is hard for you, and I’m so sorry. Sending love as you grieve. There’s really no words to make it better. Hugs!
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Thank you for understanding Ka, this is going to take some time.
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Oh, Tiffany, I am so sorry for your loss of Shady Grove. Words are never adequate. 💔💔💔🙏
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Thank you.
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I’m so sad to hear of your loss. Shady Grove. What a companion, with such a beautiful name, too.💜💜💜
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Thank you Katie, it’s been a rough week. I finally left the house today for the first time, progress.
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Ever so sorry Tiffany. It’s always heartbreaking when the “little ones” go. But they stay with us in our memories.
Hugs
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I am sorry for the pain you are carrying in the loss of your beautiful companion. It is hard to lose someone whose presence carried such love and caring. Sending you loving comfort and soothing light.
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Thank you so much Louise, I know you understand. ❤
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So sorry, Tiffany.
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Thank you. I’m just starting to crawl out of my cave of grief to face reality.
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😿
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❤
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I’m so sorry, Tiffany. Take care.
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Thank you Audrey, I will be okay someday ☺
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What a beauty! 🤩
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🙏🙏🙏
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