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She’s Gone

Shady Grove 2008-2024

I don’t want to write this post. My heart is broken over the loss of Shady Grove. She was my constant companion, muse, and best friend for over 16 years. She was brutally taken from us on Sunday morning.

The sweetest cat I’ve ever known, she was always gentle and so careful to never scratch me. She never did anything naughty like most cats, she just wanted love and scratches.

She loved to be outdoors, that was her thing. She loved licking water off the leaves, the puddles on the ground, or the bathtub faucet.

Shady was my constant companion, always by or on my side, literally. She would sit and look up at me, lightly tugging on my clothes when she wanted my attention. She didn’t like to be picked up but she loved sitting and sleeping on me.

Crushed. Devastated. I haven’t cried this much in 30 years. We will never be the same without her.

If you have fur babies, please give them some extra love today. ❤️‍🩹😢

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68 responses to “She’s Gone”

  1. Chris Fowler Avatar
    Chris Fowler

    I am so sorry Tiffany! I know how much you loved your cat.

    We had to put Bella down (I’m sure you remember her from the office) on Friday and I feel lost.

    Please take good care of you while you grieve. Chris

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Hi Chris, I’m so sorry to hear about Bella, she was such a sweet dog. 😔 I guess we will both be okay eventually, it just hurts. Love and hugs to you guys!❤️‍🩹

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  2. M. Avatar
    M.

    🥺💔🙏

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thanks Matt 😔

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  3. Stan Stewart - muz4now Avatar
    Stan Stewart – muz4now

    I know how powerful this grief can be. Sending condolences and comforting vibes.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you, Stan, I appreciate that.

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  4. philsblog01 Avatar
    philsblog01

    So sorry for your loss.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Phil.

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  5. Graham Stephen Avatar
    Graham Stephen

    😢🤗💛🙋‍♂️

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Graham

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  6. zfthrimej Avatar
    zfthrimej

    Wishing Shady wasn’t taken in the way you described especially since she is the sweetest, considerate, loyal, and loving. Thinking of her, and feeling for you Tiffany and those who were also close to her.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you so much for your words of comfort.

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  7. Aud Avatar
    Aud

    It’s so hard to endure these losses. Our companions, the sweet souls that have shared and brightened our days. I’m so very sorry 😔 🫂

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Aud, this one is going to take a long time to recover from.

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      1. Aud Avatar
        Aud

        💙 💙 💙

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  8. lovelyandgrateful Avatar
    lovelyandgrateful

    I’m so sorry for your loss, she sounds like a wonderful companion. 💔

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you, she was the best.

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  9. Antique Works Avatar
    Antique Works

    I’m so sorry Tiffany that someone took your beautiful cat!

    Does she have a chip under her skin? She could be found if so.

    Love and hugs friend, you are in my prayers!

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you, she was chipped, and I hope the damn coyotes choked on it😭

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      1. Antique Works Avatar
        Antique Works

        Since your cat was chipped you might want to check with your local animal shelters.She may be at one of them.

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  10. The Sicilian Storyteller Avatar
    The Sicilian Storyteller

    Oh no, Tiffany! My heart is breaking for you. You loved your sweet little Shady and I know she loved you so much. Whenever we open our hearts and our homes to fur babies, we know we have to accept the sorrow along with the joy. We just take those thoughts and push them aside and when it happens, it’s devastating. That’s what having a huge heart means. I’ll be thinking of you, Tiffany. My heart is with you. Big hugs. 🫂 xoxo 🫶🏼

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Nancy, so true.

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      1. The Sicilian Storyteller Avatar
        The Sicilian Storyteller

        You’re so welcome, Tiffany. It’s going to take time coming to terms with such a huge loss; I hope today you’re feeling a little bit better. ❤︎

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        1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
          tiffanyarpdaleo

          It’s not the way I want to celebrate my birthday, but all the kinds words and support do help, thanks again Nancy.

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          1. The Sicilian Storyteller Avatar
            The Sicilian Storyteller

            Oh boy. What a bittersweet day for you, Tiffany. I hope you were able to enjoy your birthday. You could use some happiness right now. ❤︎

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  11. EclecticMusicLover Avatar
    EclecticMusicLover

    Oh no, this is very sad news! I know from personal experience that losing a beloved pet is one of the most difficult and heartbreaking events in life. They’re truly members of our family, and losing them can be every bit as painful as losing a parent, sibling or close friend. My heart goes out to you Tiffany.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Jeff.

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  12. capentalc Avatar
    capentalc

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Tiffany. That’s heartbreaking to endure the loss of your kitty baby. I will pray for your healing.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you so much, this one is going to take a while.

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  13. janetweightreed10 Avatar
    janetweightreed10

    Tiffany, I am so very sorry. As a cat lover and having lost some extraordinary feline companions I understand your loss. She will always be with you…..XX

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Janet, yes, always in my heart.❤️‍🩹

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  14. Simon Avatar
    Simon

    I’m sorry to hear this… xo

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Simon, I’m crushed.

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      1. Simon Avatar
        Simon

        I know and it sucks…

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  15. hitandrun1964 Avatar
    hitandrun1964

    I am so sorry. So very, very, sorry. There are no words, nothing anyone can say to help you right now. Sending love.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      I know you know, thank you Gigi. 😔

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        hitandrun1964

        ❤️

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  16. kcorsini Avatar
    kcorsini

    I am very sorry for your loss. Pets become so integral to our lives – indeed, they become members of our families. The loss of a pet is so devastating. My heart goes out to you.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you K, I’m lost without her. 😔

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  17. Timothy Price Avatar
    Timothy Price

    Oh no! That is terrible to lose Shady Grove. She was such a beautiful kitty. I’m so sorry.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thanks Tim, this is the worst. 😔

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      1. Timothy Price Avatar
        Timothy Price

        I can imagine.

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  18. Crafts Inspire Me Avatar
    Crafts Inspire Me

    I’m so sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful mascot for your posts and a loving member of your family. Over time, I’m sure she will give you signs of her presence just to let you know she will always be at your side.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you, yes, I know she is always close in my heart, and I believe in those signs, I am looking. 😉

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  19. Chris Lovie-Tyler Avatar
    Chris Lovie-Tyler

    Oh, I’m so sorry, Tiffany. I dread the day when we lose our cat, who looks a lot like Shady Grove.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thanks Chris, it’s the worst thing ever. Please give your kitty lots of extra love while you can. ❤

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  20. Michele Lee Avatar
    Michele Lee

    Oh dear Tiffany, I am so sorry to learn of your heartbreaking loss. Words are not adequate, but I want to share support for you. What a sweetheart personality and beautiful companion.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you so much Michele, I appreciate your kind support, this sucks.

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      1. Michele Lee Avatar
        Michele Lee

        Wish I could do more – it is a heartbreaking thing to go through. Your loss sounds traumatic. So sorry.

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  21. craig61 Avatar
    craig61

    Hate when this happens, my heart goes out to you!

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thanks Craig. 😔

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  22. Ka Malana - Fiestaestrellas.com Avatar
    Ka Malana – Fiestaestrellas.com

    I’m so very heart heavy to hear of your loss. This is hard for you, and I’m so sorry. Sending love as you grieve. There’s really no words to make it better. Hugs!

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you for understanding Ka, this is going to take some time.

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  23. At Sunnyside - Where Truth and Beauty Meet Avatar
    At Sunnyside – Where Truth and Beauty Meet

    Oh, Tiffany, I am so sorry for your loss of Shady Grove. Words are never adequate. 💔💔💔🙏

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you.

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  24. Katie Frances Hartless Avatar
    Katie Frances Hartless

    I’m so sad to hear of your loss. Shady Grove. What a companion, with such a beautiful name, too.💜💜💜

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Katie, it’s been a rough week. I finally left the house today for the first time, progress.

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  25. equinoxio21 Avatar
    equinoxio21

    Ever so sorry Tiffany. It’s always heartbreaking when the “little ones” go. But they stay with us in our memories.

    Hugs

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  26. Louise Gallagher Avatar
    Louise Gallagher

    I am sorry for the pain you are carrying in the loss of your beautiful companion. It is hard to lose someone whose presence carried such love and caring. Sending you loving comfort and soothing light.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you so much Louise, I know you understand. ❤

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  27. suzannesmom Avatar
    suzannesmom

    So sorry, Tiffany.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you. I’m just starting to crawl out of my cave of grief to face reality.

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  28. David Redpath Avatar
    David Redpath

    😿

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      tiffanyarpdaleo

      ❤

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  29. Audrey Driscoll Avatar
    Audrey Driscoll

    I’m so sorry, Tiffany. Take care.

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    1. tiffanyarpdaleo Avatar
      tiffanyarpdaleo

      Thank you Audrey, I will be okay someday ☺

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    Giadreams (themoviemylife.com)

    What a beauty! 🤩

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    Brijesh Singh

    🙏🙏🙏

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