Inked

I wanted to do something special to remember my mom, who passed away on December 9th. We often joked about getting matching mom/daughter tattoos, but it never happened.

When she was first diagnosed with dementia, she went through her things and got rid of a lot. Besides being a great artist, she was also a writer and wrote poems and stories, but sadly, most of that she threw away. While I was going through her remaining belongings, I found this poem on a small piece of paper and decided to keep it. She probably wrote it after my dad passed away.

It took some effort to find someone who was willing to do the tattoo on the specific date, and someone who could do the lettering exactly in her handwriting. I found my guy at Seventh Serpent Tattoo, and I couldn’t be happier with the final tattoo, he nailed it. 😊

The original handwritten poem

47 responses to “Inked”

  1. Kenneth Corsini Avatar

    Sorry for your loss, nice way to commemorate it. But I must say, ouch. Never had the nerve to get inked. My wife has a number of tattoos but she says I’d scream just walking in the door…

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you Ken! Kind of funny, my husband is the same, not inked and I don’t think he could handle the “uncomfortableness” but I actually love it!😉

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  2. Graham Stephen Avatar

    Mr 7️⃣🐍 has done a real nice job there of staying authentic to the original. That is a very touching tribute and I am very happy for you that the universe aligned for you with the date and all.

    Don’t go swimming now you hear till that heals up proper good 😉

    ⬻𓂀ღ☆∞♡ 🔺 𝒽𝒶𝓅𝓅𝓎 𝒻𝓇𝒾𝒹𝒶𝓎 🔺 ♡∞☆ღ𓂀⤖

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you so much Graham, it felt like the perfect way to commemorate the day of her passing, I think she would approve! 😉

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      1. Graham Stephen Avatar

        ✨🙏🙇‍♂️

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  3. Nancy's Notes 🖊️🎶 Avatar

    So sorry for your loss, Tiffany. This is a beautiful and deeply personal way to remember your mother. You chose wisely; your guy is truly an artist.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thanks Nancy! I agree, he did such a great job, it couldn’t be more perfect.❤

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  4. Stan Stewart - muz4now Avatar

    Such a lovely way to honor your mom. ♥️

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you Stan, it is exactly what I wanted!

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  5. EclecticMusicLover Avatar

    Wow, he really managed to recreate a nearly identical copy of your late mother’s lettering.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Yes, I am thrilled with the accuracy, he did such a great job, thanks Jeff!😊

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  6. capentalc Avatar

    That’s very good, both the tattoo and the poem.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you so much, C, I honestly don’t know if she wrote the poem, or if she found it somewhere, I couldn’t find it on the internet, so I assume she actually wrote it! Either way, it really is just perfect!❤

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  7. philsblog01 Avatar

    Beautiful poem and tribute Tiffany.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thanks Phil, I am very happy with it!

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  8. Z.F. Thrimej Avatar

    Spot-on homage and memento.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you so much Z, it feels just right!😉

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  9. M. Avatar

    💞 that is very cool Tif

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thanks a bunch Matt, I knew when I found the poem that it was exactly what I wanted to do with it!

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  10. Audrey Driscoll Avatar

    That is a lovely tribute to your mom, Tiffany, and the artist did a good job.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      I couldn’t agree more, thank you Audrey!

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you T, I am super glad I did it!

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  11. equinoxio21 Avatar

    Very sorry for your loss, Tiffany.

    Sadly the older ones leave us.

    And leave beautiful memories and mementos…

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      It’s the way of life, and yes, we have to hang onto our memories, however that may be!

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  12. humoringthegoddess Avatar

    What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful person. Love is forever.

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    1. humoringthegoddess Avatar

      Worthy of a reblog. Come check out yesterday’s Humoring the Goddess blog!

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      1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

        Oh, you just made my day! Thank you so much for caring and sharing!❤😊

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        1. humoringthegoddess Avatar

          Making your day makes MY day! ❤️

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    2. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Memories of love can not be stolen, I do love that part!😊

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      1. humoringthegoddess Avatar

        That’s what keeps us going.

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  13. Wayne Wolfson Avatar
    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thanks so much Wayne!

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  14. hitandrun1964 Avatar

    I’m so happy for you. Congratulations.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thanks Gigi, I am thrilled with my new ink!😊

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  15. Kirt D Tisdale Avatar

    Love the poem….so true….so very true!!

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thanks Kirt, yes, no one can take away our memories of love!❤

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  16. Ka Malana - Fiestaestrellas.com Avatar

    Wow this is incredible and deeply felt! Beautiful, Tiffany! 💖

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you so much dear Ka!

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  17. Praveen Yadav Avatar

    Your love for your mom is exemplary. You love your mom so much ☺️☺️.I’ve come to respect you a lot. Now you will have a memento of your mother.

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    1. TiffanyArpDaleo Avatar

      Thank you so much Praveen! She was my best friend and I miss her so much, she is always with me!😊

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      1. Praveen Yadav Avatar

        I salute your love. Wherever she is, she would be very happy to see you happy.☺️☺️

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  18. Giadreams (themoviemylife.com) Avatar

    Such beautiful words, Tiffany. ❤️

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